Do they complain that you don’t spend enough time with them?
Do they say anything about how you dress or what you look like?
Do they send you constant texts checking up on you when you’re not with them?
Do they ever go through your phone or social media to see who you’ve been talking to?
Have they ever posted or shared any explicit or intimate images or videos of you online?
Do you feel like you are being watched or monitored by your partner?
Do you feel afraid to disagree with them in case they get angry?
Do they ever hit, kick, or shove you?
Have they ever forced or pressured you to do anything sexual that you didn’t want to do?
Do you feel afraid to break up with them for any reason?
It sounds like your relationship is healthy. Learn more about healthy relationships here.
It sounds like your relationship might be unhealthy. Think more about your relationship and how it makes you feel. Remember, if it feels wrong it probably is.
- Call the Women’s Aid 24hr national freephone helpline on 1800 341 900
- Talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling
- Find support and information on our Get Help page
It sounds like your partner might be trying to control you. This could be part of a pattern of abuse. Nobody has the right to control, coerce or threaten you. Chat to us on our instant messaging support service or talk to someone you trust about what is going on. Get Help